The Ex-spouse Is the Extended Family

TDR: What’s the best way for the new spouses to handle ex-spouse relationships? Leman: What’s in vogue today, especially with young children, is that kids bounce back and forth from home to [ Read More ... ]

The Hunt for Soulmates

It amazes me that no matter how much we’ve been beaten down after a horrendous split, we’re looking for our soulmates, yet again. I don’t know what this says about our evolution. [ Read More ... ]

Get Ready for the Ex-spouse’s Grenades

TDR: Where does the ex-spouse fit into the picture?  Leman:  The ex-spouse can lob a grenade into your home with a simple phone call or email. Now you can see why the [ Read More ... ]

Stop Siding With Your Kids in the New Marriage

TDR: When do the new husband and wife start to try to blend the families? Leman: Put yourself in the kid’s shoes for awhile. Here’s another kid you’ve never laid eyes on, [ Read More ... ]

Kids: The Enemy to New Families

TDR: What are the typical beliefs and misconceptions when two people with separate families from previous marriages fall in love? Leman: A lot of people fall into the “tinglies.” I’m not even [ Read More ... ]

How to Date after the Divorce

You thought you were done with dating the minute you walked down the aisle…until your divorce. Now dating, once exciting before your marriage, can seem an intimidating way to begin your search for a new soulmate.

You Think YOU’RE Angry?!

One guy’s humorous take on a very bad ending to his marriage. What to do with your ex wife’s wedding dress…

Rebuild Yourself after Divorce

Divorce can destroy self-esteem. Depression can sneak into the mind without knowing what is happening.

Co-Parenting with Your Ex to Make Joint Custody Work

Despite the many challenges, it is possible to initiate and maintain a cordial working relationship with your ex for the sake of your children.